One of the fun-filled rituals organized by the groom’s family is the thengai uruttal ritual. In this, the bride and groom will be sitting facing each other.

Procedure for Thengai Uruttal Ritual in Tamil Brahmin Iyer Weddings 

After organizing a grand wedding the families of the bride and groom make preparations for the post-wedding celebrations and the Sammandhi Mariyathai is one such Iyer wedding traditions. While Grihapravesham is a common post-wedding ritual that happens in almost all Hindu weddings, this Sammandhi Mariyathai ritual is one of the kinds which is done in Tamil Brahmin weddings. After the completion of the wedding ceremony, the bride gets ready to leave for her new house. The ritual happens at that time. 

Saptapadi is the seven steps around the sacred fire that stands as a witness for the couple’s wedding. The marriage is considered complete only after completion of this ritual in Tamil Iyer wedding. Fire is considered the most important and sacred element among the Pancha Bhootas. This is because fire holds the power to destroy anything evil and provide purity. So the couple respects the sacred fire and takes seven rounds around the fire and prays for eternal happiness. 

Significance of Saptapadi Ritual in Tamil Brahmin Iyer Weddings

After the kanyadaanam ritual, comes the most important ritual called mangalya dharanam or thaali kettu followed by panigrahanam. In the Kasi yatra ritual, the bride’s father promises the groom that he will give his kanya (unmarried) daughter to him in marriage. Immediately after the kasi yatra, kanyadaan takes place in which the girl is offered to the groom in marriage and then the actual wedding ritual happens in mangalya dharanam after which the bride and groom are declared as husband and wife. 

One of the most important ceremonies in any Iyer wedding ceremony is Kanyadaanam. Kanyadaanam is considered as one of the biggest Danams (donations) in the Puranas. This Kanyadaan ritual happens right after the Oonjal ceremony.

What Happens in Kanyadaanam Ritual in Tamil Brahmin Iyer Weddings?

Oonjal or Unjal in English means a swing which is an interesting ritual in a Tamil Brahmin Iyer wedding. This ritual takes place after the malai matrudal. A traditional swing is decorated with beautiful flowers and ornaments for the bride and groom to be seated. 

What Happens during the Oonjal Ritual in Tamil Brahmin Iyer weddings?

Maalai Maatrudal means ‘exchange of garlands’. This is one of the wedding rituals in Tamil Iyer weddings that has a fun element attached to it. The families of both the groom and bride take an active part in this custom. 

What Happens during Maalai Maatrudhal Ritual in Tamil Brahmin Iyer Wedding?

Pada Puja vidhi muraigal (the rituals of pada pooja) is an important ritual in a Tamil Brahmin Iyer wedding. It happens just before the actual wedding ceremony. ‘Pada’ means feet and ‘pooja’ means performing the prayer rituals. 

Procedure for Pada Pooja Ritual in Tamil Brahmin Iyer Weddings
This ceremony starts after the groom is welcomed to the mandap

Post-wedding functions are considered to be significant in Tamil Nadar weddings. They symbolise auspicious beginnings in the couple’s journey ahead.

Tamil Nadar weddings include many ceremonies and rituals that are being followed for generations. Family values and traditional culture are given great importance in all the wedding rituals. Tamil Nadar community is well known for a rich cultural background and they are proud of their family heritage. They place great value on family bonds and make sure that the entire family is united strongly.